What To Send Miscarriage My Close Friend Just Had A Miscarriage A Couple Days After Finding Out She Was Preg. Should I Send A Card?
My close friend just had a miscarriage a couple days after finding out she was preg. Should I send a card? - what to send miscarriage
What is the best way to treat or not to tackle this problem? I know I'm there for them, but I do not want to aggravate the pain. It is also the godmother of my 3 months ... Suggestions?
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NOT ENOUGH ........
A map does not appear for a good friend. I mean, yes, it would be nice, but you have to go there and maybe not so much about him, they must be distracted. If you want, then certainly do not speak, but not with violence. Be very positive, everything you say, but not insensitive. Just be there for them like any other time. To laugh at something like making dinner or funny movies to see!. Lite little help to overcome depression. The laughter itself is healing.
I had a miscarriage shortly after I discovered that I was pregnant, it was a terrible feeling, because my husband and I wanted it soo bad.
I need my friends to her for me. I think a map would be very nice, and do not let them know what you think. A telephone follow-up would be great too. I would give it a few days before your visit. You do not want to see someone immediately. I know I did.
I do not think we should leave him alone and hope to come to you. You must know who their friends are for him and her in your prayers. You may be not really care about them, even if only acted as if it is not.
Send a card. I think it will make you better. Hope this helps!
I had a miscarriage shortly after I discovered that I was pregnant, it was a terrible feeling, because my husband and I wanted it soo bad.
I need my friends to her for me. I think a map would be very nice, and do not let them know what you think. A telephone follow-up would be great too. I would give it a few days before your visit. You do not want to see someone immediately. I know I did.
I do not think we should leave him alone and hope to come to you. You must know who their friends are for him and her in your prayers. You may be not really care about them, even if only acted as if it is not.
Send a card. I think it will make you better. Hope this helps!
DONT I repeat DONT send a card to someone who will tell you, it is for them or at least put the phone in his position you prefer
Do not be cruel, but because it went so quickly, I do not think is a card needed. I'm sure it's by what comes from being overwhelmed famous, or maybe take in a quiet place and just talk
I did not send a card - it's too impersonal. Instead, call, or stop for a visit home, I say that if you need anything, you're here. Give your love and support. If you really want something, do something relaxing, perhaps a little chamomile tea and bubble bath, with a novel, if she likes to read. Most likely you will need a little comfort to overcome the loss, and these things are not allowed.
A map would be a start. It is so hard to cope with a miscarriage, because the person who loses a life that has ever lived ... and has nothing to remember, as a rule for the child because physically, the child is a person for them, and when someone dies, you know, the family try to be there for them. It is so sad to have to deal with it. What I do is ask her what she needs you to help you. Do not get me wrong, but also want to not be around children because it is too difficult for them to cope with their loss and is very difficult to see anything, and not what's' Rose ... can also be quite different with babies ... But why should we ask them what they need. I think a card would be a nice gesture, but it can not really go wrong because they know that there is no sense of pain that you go through now. She is happy, a friend like you!
Another idea would be for them everything (save and even some blood clots) ... or have their wRite a letter to the child, then burn the letter and buried it in a plant, which lost in memory of their son, they can be maintained. That's what I did and helped me take the child. The idea of writing is that the spirit and the children if he is in the fire and the baby cozmas the message.
Take them to lunch and ask him how he did it. Or send a card to cheer just for your pleasure only for you.
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